Sunday, 11 November 2012

When You Question your Existence

"It's not something new to talk about. People have been facing this dilemma long before I was born and will continue to do so long after I'm gone. But one thing is worth noticing, that LIFE goes ON."

There are times when one does question his/her existence in this world, their purpose in life and why should they continue living like this. Reasons are countless: miserable childhood, not getting what you deserve and what you want, longing for someone's love, debts, problems in relationships, death of someone close, your dreaded past catching up with you etc.

"Remember nothing is permanent in this wicked world, not even our troubles."
"An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it's going to launch you into something great."


These feelings, actually, are what make us human and eventually prove motivating in some way or the other. So why should we continue ? How do you make these feelings go away ? And why do really feel so ? The solution isn't as complex as the problem.

Somebody somewhere out there is facing the worse and still fighting. It's not to give you consolation but help you derive the courage to fight on as they have. You are no less than that somebody, we all are made equal. "Take inspiration, never stop."

Everyone faces their fair share of hardships, just the timing is different. Some people reflect it, some don't. Never ever think of taking the Extreme Step. If everybody thought that way, just imagine how the world would be.


Stop thinking too much, it never helps. Start doing what you can. When life hits you, hit back with what all you have. Remember "YOU are STRONG". "NEVER GIVE UP".

Your parents, family and friends love you so much that YOU mean everything to them. Have a talk, share your feelings, let your heart pour out and try to see the light that has been hidden in this darkness all along.

There is always somebody out there looking out for you, praying for you and your happiness, just doesn't want you to know. Waiting for you to bounce back and see the jolly you. Don't forget that, you just don't have to fight just because you have to but because there is someone waiting for you on the other side cheering for you.

Lastly, remember there's GOD looking out for all of us. Bringing us into this life and helping us move forward at every step. If you can't share your grief with anyone, there's always GOD.
Even if you are an atheist it doesn't hurt to believe in a higher being (we all do things everyday that are illogical/irrational). Thank Him for all that you have, pray for all the courage you need and all that you want to achieve.
"He's listening."


When you are victorious and have defeated the impossible, never forget those times for thay have made you stronger and shown nothing can stop you.
Keep some goals, short term and long term goals.Long term goals to keep you going and the short ones to give provide you with the constant dose happiness, motivation.
Learn to love yourself, live life for yourself because YOLO (You only live once).
:)


You Inspire Me
(Family, friends and everyone else)

8 comments:

  1. Here is the first comment on your new blog :D
    And I am so glad it's by me :)
    Welcome to the blogging clan :)
    You have made a nice start on this journey, and all the best. Hoping to see more of you regularly :)

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    1. A nicely written piece.
      I should warn you, this is a dangerous habit, blogging.. highly addictive!

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    2. Thank you brother :) :)
      You were the first inspiration at college, and I hope to be as good as you :D

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    3. Thanks Atul. Let's see what in store for me ahead :)

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  2. You can't be serious! Me and your inspiration?

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  3. Wowww, very well said... :)
    n too inspiring

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